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Mom Style (40+) 😉
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items Effortless, age-defying looks that balance style and comfort. From wardrobe essentials to chic accessories, find ideas that match your vibe.
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Bottoms
Tops
Shoes, Socks & Slippers
Athleisure
Swim
Accessories
Bottoms
I'm slim, always have been. This list has all my favorites that are great for every day and can be mixed and matched all the time.
These are so good. I have to force myself not to wear them everyday. I love a cozy wide leg and these are in my top 3 easy!
Cozy Fleece Wide Leg Sweatpant - Fabletics
My favorite jeans always end up being from Madewell. Their fit works best for a mom who wants to be cool but functional.
Women's Jeans: Clothing - Madewell
Hands down my favorite pair of joggers. They work for lazy lounging days to running errands or working out. High quality and worth the price.
Joggers for Women | Women's Sweats | Vuori Clothing
I love these jeans, they are so soft and they fit at just the right area on my waist. I have them in two colors. The best part is they were $25.00!
High-Rise Womens LC Lauren Conrad Jeans
This is a really pretty deep forest green color. The fit is great with some stretch but also keeps my looking clean and sleek.
Olive Green Cargo Pants
I was looking for an affordable cargo pant and these are so comfortable. I'm wearing an x-small.
Women's High-rise Straight Leg Cargo Pants - Wild Fable
So flattering and very comfortable
Women's High-Rise Denim Shorts: Patch Pocket Edition
I love a good pair of loose fitting cargo pants for the Spring & Summer. These have a drawstring and are a little cropped (and probably from a few years ago) but there are lots of current options that are tapered and longer. A great option for Mo...
Cargo Pants For Women | Old Navy
I finally caved and bought something other than skinny jean and I've already worn them three days in a row. 🙈 comfortable as ever and feeling good about myself. I bought a size 3/26.
Juniors' SO® Super High-Rise Baggy Dad Jeans - Kohl's
As you get older you care less about the trends and more about comfort and function. These do that job and do it well!
Women's Denim Shorts
I have these in Black. They are so comfortable and very flattering. I also love how light weight they are. I can anticipate wearing these a lot in the spring and summer season.
Women's Linen Pants | Wide Leg Linen Pants | H&M US
This AE cream utility/cargo pant is really versatile and really comfortable. I like to roll the bottom to give them a shorter look, and I paired it with a white blouse to dress it up and it worked really well. I felt put together, but still kind of c...
Women's Pants: Cargo, Wide-Leg, Flare & More
These are NOT the cropped version but the same everywhere else. I LOVE them and they are surprisingly VERY comfortable.
The Perfect Vintage Wide-Leg Crop Jean in Tile White
I need to take a photo of myself in these so you can see how cute they are and how versatile they are. Comfy, stylish (in a cool Mom kind of way) and fun!
Womens Shorts
A good pair of comfortable grey sweatpant shorts, nothing better honestly
Women's Athletic Shorts
I was in need of a new set of plain black biker shorts. These are buttery soft and aren't too much of a compression that I feel like a sausage. I also like the length and feel like they won't creep up when moving around. I'm excited to keep wearing t...
Lavento Women's Naked Feeling Biker Shorts
Funky and fun and flattering. I love the fit and the subtle two tone wash for an added funk!
Madewell | Jeans, Clothing, Shoes & Bags for Women and Men
Trying to stay "on trend" without breaking the bank. These jeans have some stretch, a great wash with NO distressing. And I love the wide deep pockets. Best part they are affordable!
Wide Leg Jeans
Full transparency I was a little worried about being able to pull off this skirt. But after getting it home I'm excited. I think I can pair it with some high boots as well and a cozy sweater and it will look very stylish.
Womens Long Denim Skirt
Tops
You'd be accurate to say I'm in my oversized fit era. I'm tiny up top so I don't like to show my smaller build all the time. Plus oversized is so comfortable.
I'm in a major oversized phase right now and this tee hits all the notes. It's comfortable and affordable and it only gets better the more you wear it. I also love all the color options.
Aerie Oversized Boyfriend T-Shirt
This is such a great color and perfect for the holidays. It's a nice medium sized weight and has large cuffs and a great length.
Womens Red Sweater - Target
Recently bought this at target because I was drawn to the vibrant colors. I was pleasantly surprised to find how much I loved the oversized fit as well! So comfortable!
Wild Fable : T-Shirts & Tees for Women - Target
I recently bought the shirt and normally I'm a neutral girl. I don't wear a lot of color, but for some reason the shirt/blouse just stuck out in the store. It's so cheerful and bold and fresh and I got two different compliments the first day I wore i...
Green | Shirts & Blouses For Women | H&M US
My favorite everyday t-shirt and it's incredibly afforadable!
Free Assembly Womens Tops in Womens Clothing - Walmart ...
This is a great tee that is just slightly more elevated than your average basic tee. I don't usually do color but everyone around me tells me this color looks amazing on me. So I caved.
Women's Whisper Cotton Rib-Crewneck Tee
Just got this shirt and it is soooo comfortable. I love the pattern and the color. It's a soft pale blue which is perfect for spring. This shirt will get a lot of use.
Aerie Oversized Boyfriend T-Shirt
I love this basic tee because its not basic at all. The fabric is so buttery soft, the color this creamy light tan/beige and a higher neckline (not like turtleneck) just slightly higher than your traditional crew neck
Women's T-Shirts & Tank Tops
This sweater is easy but fair warning I found it on sale after Christmas. It's a light grey with tiny specs of pastel rainbow colors. It's cozy and bright and fun. I love it.
Lou & Grey Rainbow Stripe Cozy Cotton Terry Sweatshirt
Thick oversized white tee with slits on the side.
Women's Oversized T-Shirts & Tees
Perfect for those summer days and that easy breezy look on the beach.
Womens Green Striped Shirt
I have a very small chest and this bralette made me feel soooo good! Love!
Smart & Sexy Women's Cut-Out Racerback Bralette
A good shacket is something I never knew I needed but boy am I glad I have one now. I wear this thing all the time in the Fall and Winter. It's so warm, easy to throw on because its neutral in the colors and pattern and its stylish. Highly recommend ...
Shacket
I finally ordered this and I have to admit I love it. It's so comfortable. I was really worried about the length, it does show my belly a bit but honestly its in a pretty tasteful way. The top is just so dang comfortable I can see myself wearing this...
THE GYM PEOPLE Womens' Longline Sports Bra
I have this T-shirt in four different colors. It's my favorite piece from the free assembly women's line and it's $12.
Free Assembly t shirt - Walmart.com
I just received my first sweater and love it. For $50 it's very good quality and I see this being a staple in my closet for many years.
Women's Cashmere Sweaters and Clothing - Quince
Shoes, Socks & Slippers
The classics. I like neutrals and I'm not shy about it!
I can't wait to wear these this Fall. The touch of green is nice but not over powering and they can still be paired with tons of things
Club C 85 Shoes - White / Green
A good pair of neutral tennis shoes that are casual but cute are a must. If you take the extra time to keep them clean I swear they make your outfits look chic and timeless…not to mention up with the trends.
Women's Running, Casual & Athletic Shoes - New Balance
They may look funny but they are SOOOOOO comfortable and the perfect summer slipper.
Women's Slippers
Never going back. Why it took me so long to switch to Bombas is something I'll never know. Don't let the price scare you they are worth every penny. The company also is a 10/10, I had one tiny issue and they replaced my item for free, no questions asked and were very generous about it.
Bombas
One of my favorite summer shoe, I love the little braided detailing on the side with the skinny strap
Rainbow Sandals
Less is more and these are a staple in my summer wardrobe.
Flip Flops : Women's Sandals - Target
Classic...that is all. 😊
Womens Lifestyle Shoes. Nike.com
I will admit these are a bit narrow and I can't wear them all day long but I LOVE the look and they have this coconut creamy white color to them which is gorgeous and a bit unique.
Womens Lifestyle Shoes
I pulled the trigger. It took me a long time but I have been wanting a pair for so long. I haven't worn them in yet but so far so good. They are so cute and just my style.
Samba Shoes | adidas US
I love these neutral colors and they are SOOO SOFT!
Neutral Socks for All Season
Athleisure
Is there anything really better than athleisure? It's part of my essential wardrobe as a Mom on the go.
I got this in the blue and I absolutly love it. It is so flattering and very comfortable. I can tell it is very supportive and I can wear this in the toughest workout.
Oasis Rib Twist Medium Impact Sports Bra - Fabletics
When you turn 40 well those low rise shorts just don't cut it. These look “hip” and are so comfortable and come to just the right spot on the waist. I can chase my 4 year old anywhere in these.
The One Short 5'' - Women's - Fabletics
I love a good wide leg, baggy but not too baggy sweatpant. This hits all the marks for me. I got the classic black so I can wear it with nearly anything. So comfortable and truly affordable.
Year Round Terry Wide Leg Sweatpant - Fabletics
This sweatshirt is SOOOO Good. It's a total dupe and really cozy. I'd love to get more colors
Womens Oversized Hoodies Pullover Fleece Sweater
Oh my goodness why did I sit on high waisted workout shorts for so long?! These are the best thing ever. About to order more colors!
BMJL Women's High Waisted Running Shorts
One of my favorite stores to purchase high quality, easy-going and staple pieces. They offer elevated lounge wear and work-out gear that I feel good about going out in.
Shop Athleta for Women's Yoga Clothing, Technical Athletic ...
This brand is really good for the price, actually exceptionally good. I prefer my black Fabletics leggings over my Lululemon align ones. Don't get me wrong, The Lululemon feel great but they pil, these do not.
Women's Leggings - Fabletics
Affordable, comfortable, stylish and best of all it doesn't fall apart after the first few uses. Love mine and I literally wear them every week.
Women's Sweatshirts - Fabletics
The back of this is what sold me and I have to say I was so impressed when I tried my own and it fit like a glove. It's beautiful, smooth fabric and really highlights your back muscles. I have it is chocolate brown and wear it all the time.
Aoxjox Women's Padded Backless Yoga Crop Tank
All I can say is the hype is real. It's a great top and very comfortable.
THE GYM PEOPLE Womens' Longline Wirefree Sports Bra
Very flattering, affordable and makes me feel good. I can move in them easily and the quality seems to be great.
Lavento Women's Naked Feeling Biker Shorts
They named this product correctly. This is a year round hoodie and I might just live in it.
Year Round Terry Hoodie - Fabletics
Swim
I'm creeping into my early 40's (I'm not there yet but soon!) I'm also thin but a Mom of three young kids so I prefer a suit that isn't a string bikini but I'm also not totally into all one pieces. These are some of my favorites that I still feel goo...
My newest suit and I love it. I got the Havana top and the purple bottoms. These bottoms are pretty darn close to “real” full coverage bottoms. The colors are fun and bright and I love the unique back of this swim top.
Havana Switch V Crop
About 5 years ago I finally stopped buying bathing suits from Target and invested in one that was a little pricer. Wow was that a great decision and I should have done it a lot earlier. I love my athleta bikini and it's lasted me for years! Unlike the Target suits that I usually get one season out of at best. Spend the money on something that is better quality you won't regret.
Swimsuits & Swimwear | Athleta
I wanted (and needed) something that was supportive and cute. I also didn't want a string bikini anymore. I liked this brand because the suits where fashionable but appropriate as a young mom. This suit has also lasted me many seasons unlike cheaper ...
Swimwear - CALIA
Great price, loads of fun colors to choose from!
Chuangdi 2 Pieces Sarong Coverups for Women
My new favorite swimsuit. Great coverage and very flattering
Andie Swim: Andie | Swimwear by women for women. Find ...
Accessories
You can make and break an outfit with accessories so these are just a few of my favorites I use all the time
I just received my first set of bracelets and I'm head over heels for these. In all honesty I've been going through so major emotions lately and these little guys seem really silly but when I look down at my wrist in the middle of the day I do tend t...
Little Words Project | A Shareable, Trackable Bracelet
I love my beanie. I usually stick with neutrals so it can go with everything but all the colors offered are nice. Great quality and lasts year after year.
Knit Hats, Beanies, Winter Hats, & Watch Caps | Carhartt
I love this bag and it holds so many bottles.
Preppy Patch Azure SPF Varsity Letter Bag
I used this over the summer and loved how easily it could be used for dressy or casual occasions. It can be used as a clutch or a strap can be attached. Neutral, classic and perfect for summer!
Top Handle Straw Clutch
I use this almost everyday. It's neutral (which I love) so it goes with nearly everything and as a mom of 3 on the go this helps me keep just what I need in a quicky and easy way.
Pander Fanny Pack Crossbody Bags, 1L Mini Bum Bag
I've had this for YEARS and I still love it. I have the teal and I think it's bright and happy looking. It's functional, easy to wash and holds a lot. Great quality and the brand and the people behind the brand are folks you want to support.
Louie Slings
Dresses
I don't get to wear dresses often but when I do I tend to get compliments…hmmm maybe thats a sign I should add more to my wardrobe.
I felt so good in this dress and they have loads of colors to choose from.
PRETTYGARDEN Women's Summer Midi Bodycon Dress
Nighttime
I'm pretty basic over here and all about the comfort.
I've been wearing a REALLY old pair of shorts to bed. I decided to upgrade and wish I did it sooner. So comfy and so light weight. Perfect for sleeping
SKIMS- Loose Boxer (sleep short)
You can never go wrong with a good quality oversized t-shirt
BOYFRIEND T-SHIRT | ONYX