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I have loved giving gifts since I was a little girl. I would often spend my pocket money on other people. I think there can be more joy in giving than receiving… but what if we could make what other's receive from us extra special? Some gifts are exp... If you're struggling for ideas, check out my lists for any occasions and find something that resonates with you… but more importantly, that will resonate with the person you're honouring!
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The Greatest Gift Of All For Mother

You know that the greatest gift of all is your LOVE! I often tell people, not just my kids, that I won't take less than your love. Something personal, that has meaning, caters to my interests or I have requested (or hinted to at some time) are my fav... These might appeal to the mother in your life too. 

 
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I wrote a whole article about this painting which you can read here. It was gifted to me because of the immense meaning the picture had for me and that I loved it so very much. The amazing thing that makes it even more special is that it was painted ...
The Reason Why This Is My Favourite Artwork
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This website is stunning and the gift baskets for ABSOLUTELY every occasion blow me away. They are so reasonably priced and there's something that is sure to appeal to the personality and interests of every mother.
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We're a lego family! EVERY Christmas the whole family gets lego.  Some of my favourites have been a skyline of Sydney (as I'm Australian) from my kids (when they were in Australia visiting the grandparents) and Mickey and Minnie Mouse. This is my current ‘must have’ AND the guy in the Lego store tells me it is curr... What would you choose?
Tuxedo Cat 21349 | Ideas | Buy online at the Official LEGO® Shop US
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Aren't they adorable?? These are in pride of place in my lounge room and were a gift from my middle child, Callum, for Christmas. I'm not a fast lego builder but it plays on my love of doing puzzles.  It's surprising how many visitors are drawn to them which sparks a conversation on lego and it's significance to our family every time!
Mickey Mouse & Minnie Mouse Buildable Characters - LEGO
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A home cannot have too much lego and this mum likes it too. It's a bonding thing and if it makes my man and my kids happy, I'm all in. I don't think I'll ever get this one as there are too many other kits everyone else wants and we don't have the bud...
Sydney Opera House™ 10234 | Creator 3-in-1 - LEGO
 
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I love dining out! It doesn't have to be a special occasion and not even something fancy. As long as the food is good and the atmosphere is right, I guarantee your mother will love a night off too. Why do I feature this favourite restaurant of mine? ... I go all out and have steak and shrimp with sticky date pudding to make sure I'm not hungry for a week! So delicious!!
Strathmore Station Restaurant & Pub
 
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ROFLOL! You do know that it's NOT OK to give your mother a vacuum for any celebratory gift, don't you??  Just don't… at least not with prior approval. So with this said, I actually do want one of these. I have a Dyson ball vacuum that I love but one of these little zippy ones would be so handy! I don't want a fake one though. If it's not a quality dyson...
Cordless Vacuum Cleaners - Dyson
 
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Can you believe it?? My eldest son gave me AirPods for Christmas a few years back. I had a set but they were losing their spark and one stopped working. He noticed and stepped up for me! I actually don't use them all the time but love them for phone ...Medium.com articles as I work around the house or cook a meal.
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A Dishwasher??? Well, there's a story here. My old dishwasher that I inherited with our house died and we couldn't afford a new one. I washed dishes by hand for months telling my husband I didn't want to go into debt for convenience. Well as it happe...
Dishwashers - The Home Depot
 
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It doesn't have to be an occasion, in fact sometimes it's better if it's not. Most ladies love flowers and your mom will be touched if you buy her a bouquet to match her personality. I like bright and sunny flowers. I also like researching the signif... Even a simple bunch from the supermarket reeks of love if going all out isn't in your budget, although sending flowers from across the country is nice when you can't be there. If you want a gift that keeps on giving, consider a potted plant instead… ...
Flowers | Flower Delivery | Fresh Flowers Online | 1-800 ...
 
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I'm a jigsaw lover so this is always a safe bet for me BUT the picture has to appeal to me and the puzzle has to be a quality one or I just won't do it. If you're going to buy your mom a jigsaw, consider the number of pieces (1000 is a good challenge...
Jigsaw Puzzles | Quality since 1891 Ravensburger
 
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It's easy to buy a gift for your mother if she's a reader. Readers love (surprisingly - haha) books and a real book is a real treat. When I read A Painted House I just had to own it so it was the perfect present even though I'd already read the story...
A Painted House: A Novel: Grisham, John - Books
 
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I WANT ONE OF THESE SO BAD!! All my photos are stuck on a cameral roll for years past. I never look at them and scroll endlessly to find what I'm looking for. Sometimes a memory will pop up on Facebook and it delights me but I don't post there very o...
KODAK Digital Picture Frames & Storage
 
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I collect oils because I LOVE them. Not only do (most of them) smell divine, they can also be very therapeutic. There is an oil for any budget as well as products that use the oils and infusers that will waft the benefit of the oils through your home...
Young Living Essential Oils
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Jewellery is a classic but I'm not a jewellery wearing person. What I do like is gems that speak to me and offer balancing, protection and positive energy.  I carry them in my pocket, put them around the house, research their significance and tuck them under my pillow. Consider gems that have unusual or interesting colours for your mom and something that is unique and reminds her of you specifically. Whe... know it when you've found the right one.
Shop All Gemstone Jewelry - Helzberg Diamonds
 
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Does your mother have a pet she loves? What a unique surprise to receive a message from the beloved animal. Presented in a PDF document with a photo you can have printed.
Hjbradford: I will provide a unique message from your pet for $85 on fiverr.com
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It must take a big heart to be a pastor's wife. The journey is one of compassion and friendships with a big dose of understanding and wisdom. This book is written by my beautiful friend, JoEllen Claypool, and is sure to resonate with both women and C...
A Realist's Guide to Being a Pastor's Wife

The Greatest Gift Of All For Dad

 
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We are a Lego family. We have been giving the gift of lego consistently for over 25 years. Longer, probably. My husband loves the lego houses featured here and they line two shelves in our bedroom. Usually he gets a new one every Christmas. They are ...
LEGO® Buildings Sets | Official LEGO® Shop US
 
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You can browse the lego store and find something for everyone! My husband love's lego and can't have everything he wants. He has two roller coasters…. we can discuss where to fit these fine examples of fun in your house later! Sigh… I'm glad Canadian...
Roller Coaster 10261 | Creator Expert | Buy online at the Official LEGO® Shop US
 
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While gift giving lego for the dad in this house can get quite expensive, there are cheaper options too. I got one of these small lego cars as a ‘secret santa’ for my boss when I worked. He was so excited he dropped everything to sit at his desk and ...
LEGO® Car Toys & Sets | Official LEGO® Shop US
 
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Yeah… my husband loves HO scale model train stuff and has a room devoted to his layout. My son has taken up the obsession too. We're in Canada and he shops locally but this website looks great and I recognized well respected brand names my husband ha...
HO Scale Model Trains - TrainWorld
 
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This website truly impressed me and I also recommended it as a good place to consider a gift for mothers. The baskets look amazing and are reasonably priced. Find something your dad would like featuring wine, cheese or sweet treats. Perfect if you ca...
Gift baskets
 
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I have known a few men who like jigsaws in my life. My husband will pick away at one when i have it set up, my son helps out a lot and my father-in-law does them on his phone. If you're going to consider a jigsaw for dad, consider the number of piece...
Jigsaw Puzzles | Quality since 1891 Ravensburger
 
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I'm a writer and so this appeals to me, but it is potentially a lovely gift for an older dad too. My husband writes also and most of us use our computers and the convenience of word. A journal like this, though, is a personal place to jot thoughts, q...
Leather Journal For Men
 
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Don't believe anyone who tells you flowers aren't for men. Especially when the occasion is significant (like a big birthday milestone or an anniversary) flowers have beauty and significance. They bring you closer when distance keeps you apart. I like...
Flowers | Flower Delivery | Fresh Flowers Online | 1-800 ...
 
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This is a cute idea for anyone, especially for kids who don't have a budget of their own to spend on their dad or for the father of your children if you have a gift in mind that can't fit in box! Personalize it and let your mind get creative!
Free, printable gift certificate templates to customize - Canva
 
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It's not super original but men generally hate shopping, especially for clothes and shoes. I have it in mind to get my husband a pair of Birkenstocks as I LOVE mine. I might order me a new pair while I'm at it!
Shoes: Women's, Men's & Kids Shoes from Top Brands | DSW
 
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I was just looking online for Birkenstocks and usually buy most of my shoes at DSW (I made a card for that just now) but then I noticed this website. It's worth comparing prices and selection!
BIRKENSTOCK USA Online Shop
 
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My husband is reading an Andy McNab book right now. I can attest to how good they are too. If the dad in your life is a reader it's likely he would love one of these too. McNab's first book, Bravo Two Zero would be a good place to start. I also have ...
Andy McNab: books, biography, latest update
 
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Many men love sport and it's healthier to play it than to watch it. Nobody enjoys sport without the right equipment. I can't speak to most sports but our thing is pickleball. Cruising around this website I noticed they had paddles for as little as $2...
Team Sports Equipment | Best Price at DICK'S
 
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Wizard is the BEST card game of all time. Not only is it fun, it is highly portable. We play it with several of our friends when we have an evening together. Our grown kids line up to play in the evenings with us. Last year when we went to Australia ...
Wizard
 
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OK, it's not original, but who doesn't like chocolate?? And fine chocolate?? That's a worthy treat for a gift. If you're lucky, dad will share it!
Gearharts Fine Chocolates | Handcrafted ... - Charlottesville
 
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Father's can be difficult to buy for! Is your father an animal lover? You won't find a more unique and interesting present than a personal animal reading from his favourite pet. The reading is presented as a PDF with photo included for you to print o...
Hjbradford: I will provide a unique message from your pet for $85 on fiverr.com
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Is the father in your life a writer too. That's the circle I walk in and my great friend, author JoEllen Claypool, weaves thoughts and writing tips throughout the 52 quotes and prompts of this journal. The exercises invite the writer to share their i...
If Words Were Falling Down Like Rain: Quotes

The Greatest Gift Of All For Valentine

Valentine's day for me is like being a practising Christian. Why make a fuss of one day in the year when you celebrate the love of your life every single day? Having said that, it's a thing and I know MANY people DO celebrate it and for good reason. ... 

 
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If you're going to give your valentine flowers, do it right. It has to be red roses!! I'm a little quirky though… I LOVE colour and would appreciate a bunch of anything flamboyant! Back to the roses though, maybe the ones pictured with the white flow...
Red Rose Bouquet Delivery - Teleflora
 
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We can all scoff chocolate any day of the year and it's available at every check out at the supermarket, but come on guys… it's valentines day. Show the love with one of these beautiful gift boxes… appropriately in the shape of a heart!
Valentine's Day Chocolates
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Guys, know your audience here before you go for the lingerie option. Gals, expect it's only gift wrapping so don't dress up (or down) without anticipating the consequences. Have fun, but be safe out there my lovelies!
Sexy Lingerie, Bridal, and More - Victoria's Secret
 
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Sometimes you might have an idea that money can't buy! Create your very own gift certificate. It's fun, personal and can fit into any budget!  It's not romantic but I'd like the vacuuming done for me… lol… it's an in joke kind of thing. Stick around and I might tell you some day!
Free, printable gift certificate templates to customize - Canva
 
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I'm questioning if I'm quirky or cute but I find the idea of slippers for valentines day very intimate and romantic. Disclaimer: They MUST be classy and good quality. You can't go past UGGS. Didn't they originate in Australia like me??  Don't go buying me some cheap things made in a country that shall not be  named, made out of synthetic crap. Just saying….
Women's Slippers: Indoor House Slipper & Clog Styles | UGG®
 
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His and hers bath robes. The gift that will keep you warm all year. It's a classic symbol of togetherness and something we often don't spend the money on for ourselves.
Plush Robe
 
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Yes, this is about anniversaries but the point is a fine dining experience makes memories. Valentines day is the time to spend a little more on dining out than usual. Read this article for my own experience with the same restaurant over the many year...
This Is The Magnificent View On My Anniversary
 
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Lotsa gals love Sephora. I'm not that classy but I could pretend to be! Wikipedia tells me Sephora is a French multinational retailer of personal care and beauty products, offering nearly 340 brands alongside its own private label, the Sephora Collec...
Gift Cards & eGift Cards | Sephora
 
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Are you nesting with your valentine?? Update the furniture and be both practical and romantic with this outside the box idea. This is a modern take on a loveseat! Guarantee you'll have great movie nights all year long!
Loveseat Reclining Sofas You'll Love - Wayfair
 
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I feel the energy in gemstones and they call to me. If you want a gemstone that has good energy, consider these that are associated with love - rose quartz, amethyst, aventurine, lapis lazuli, garnet, and morganite. A quick google search will tell yo...
Shop All Gemstone Jewelry - Helzberg Diamonds
 
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Some essential oils that are said to promote love include ylang ylang, jasmine, rose, and sandalwood. Google will help you understand the differences in each oil but the smells are harder to describe. These oils can be used in diffusers, baths, or as...
Young Living Essential Oils
 
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I am NOT recommending a car air freshener for Valentines day guys. It's practical for some people (I hate them) but not that romantic. Candles,  on the other hand, set the mood. Stinky candles are not my thing and I don't think they're very healthy. If you want smell go with the infuser and the essential oil. If you want mood lighting, yep, stock up on the candles!
Candles, Home Fragrance & Car Air Fresheners | Yankee Candle®
 
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OH I KNOW!! I keep pushing these darn gift baskets. BUT they're BEAUTIFUL and truly varied. One for every occasion and personality. Imagine buying a savory version with red wine and taking it on a picnic! Yes, in my dreams…. make yours come true!
Gift basket
 
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You don't need to buy these. There is a better game than any of them. AND IT'S FREE. My husband and I play a game we coined ‘20 Questions.’ We play it sometimes when we're out to dinner and need something to talk about and to stimulate conversation. ...
Couples Date Night Games | 120 Cards
 
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The tradition of card giving is almost past. It still happens at valentines day though and they're one type of card that gets tucked away as a keepsake. If it's the only card you give this year, make it a nice one!
Handmade Cards - Graphique de France
 
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I have no comments on this one. None. Not one thing to say. How would I know which costume you want… I grew up in a country that thinks Halloween is absurd! Dressing up for Valentines day?? How about Dracula?? Roflol. I amuse even myself!! Check out ...
French Maid Costume
 
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Exquisite! That's all I can say! I want all the Lego botanicals. My husband gave me roses and I gave him sunflowers. I admit that was more for me… he grows me sunflowers every year because I love them so much and he dutifully built me the Lego ones I...
The LEGO® Botanical Collection
 
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HEATHER!!! It's Valentines day! What are you thinking?? Baby clothes?? Hehe… stick with me here guys. After I got pregnant my husband put a gift under the tree at Christmas for me - from our baby. It was only a tiny pair of socks but it was the most ...
Baby, Newborn, and Infant Clothes | Carter's
 
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If you're going to go with jewellery then make it significant and thoughtful. If you really don't know what your love interest would like, you can't go wrong with a birthstone. It shows you thought about it and you know something personal about them ...
Birthstone Jewelry | Kendra Scott
 
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Take a trip away from the everyday. It doesn't have to be far and removes the distractions of home! Nobody has to mow the lawn, do the washing or unload the dishwasher when they're holidaying. Spend a day or two to focus on each other in a neutral en...
Vrbo
 
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I'm wincing a little… just a tad… at suggesting this but there are circumstances where a gift card is the best thing going. Read the situation and know your sweetheart. You may find just what you need here!
Buy Gift Cards, eGift Cards, Visa - 350+ Brands | Giftcards.com
 
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Does the person you love have a pet they love more than you?? Don't feel bad, it happens! You won't be in the dog house on valentines day though when you gift this unique animal reading for their beloved pet. If you need a reading for a special event...
Hjbradford: I will provide a unique message from your pet for $85 on fiverr.com
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I love my pocket chime that was gifted to me years ago. The idea is you pop it in your pocket and as you go about your day it makes a chiming noise as you move. This noise is a little reminder which you can customize on the gift card - Remember you a...
Fresh Pocket Chime Heart

The Greatest Gift Of All For Christmas

I have lots of time to think about this list as it's only February as I write this. Having said this, it's never too early to start looking for unique gifts. There's nothing worse  than last minute Christmas shopping and it usually results in desperate impersonal gifts. Collecting gifts as the year goes on is a great idea to help cash flow and budgeting and remember what those you love really want when you pick up on hints. Tak... 

 
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I don't know about other places but in Canada it seems there are poinsettia's everywhere for the season. I bought one myself this year and I love that it's still alive in February. Having said that, discovering this beautiful Lego inspired me to star...
Poinsettia 10370 | The Botanical Collection - LEGO
 
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This story is a family tradition in my husbands family. When the ‘boys’ were little his parents read it to them on Christmas eve.
How the Grinch Stole Christmas!
 
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OH beautiful Christmas wreaths. Check out this wonderful website and decorate your home for the season. They have  a clearance section so check what's there!
Premium Wreaths Garlands | King of Christmas
 
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What a special gift that people will enjoy year after year. I have two calendar hangars just like these and they turn a calendar into a neat decor feature.
Crossroads Star Calendar Holder : Office Products
 
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I thought this website would just be for prints (and there were some really funky ones I loved) but there is so much more! Unique back packs, coffee mugs, bed sheets… I can't list it all. But then I searched Christmas!! Shower curtains (really??), pi...
High-Quality Art Prints: Framed & Recessed - Society6
 
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Watches aren't really a thing anymore and even I just use my phone to tell the time. It's nearly always in my hand or pocket. Then I got poking around this website for Olivia Burton London and found this Vintage Floral Gold Bracelet watch. It's so pr...
Women's Gold Watches | Olivia Burton London
 
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The idea of a Christmas getaway may be inspired by going somewhere warm (Christmas is in summer in Australia after all) but I'm more inspired by funny Christmas movies in which people try to escape the traditional family Christmas drama. What ever th... visiting overflow.
Vrbo
 
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I want a murphy bed SO badly! It would be perfect in our office for the Christmas crowd and useful the rest of the year too… and between times it's a stylish piece of ‘furniture’ in the office.
Murphy Beds
 
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Remember the pooch! Make some super cute memory photos too!! Amazon is full of great gifts for pets at relatively cheap prices.
Christmas Vest For Dogs