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A curated list for all the 90s babies and trendsetters keeping that golden era energy alive. From oversized denim to bamboo earrings, this is a throwback to Black girl cool — the era of Reeboks, lip gloss, and house party confidence. Perfect for serving looks with a side of nostalgia.

Step into a time machine with this nostalgic collection of classic toys from the 1980s — when Saturday morning cartoons, cassette players, and neighborhood tag ruled our world. Whether you're reliving your childhood or sharing it with the next generation, these fun finds will take you all the way back to hopscotch, big hair, and jelly everything.

Let’s be real — a soft life includes soft serve, sweet sips, and effortless treats. This list is full of party-ready kitchen gadgets that bring fun to your countertop and joy to every gathering. Whether you're making snow cones for the kids, whipping up frozen drinks for girls’ night, or adding a little flair to your backyard party, these are the tools I actually use (and love). No special skills required — just press, pour, and enjoy. Perfect for summer hosting, family nights, or whenever you want to treat yourself.

Forget the gym. My workouts happen at home or outside—with a good playlist and a cup of tea nearby. This list is full of cute and comfy activewear I actually use: breathable leggings, supportive bras, functional tops, and sneakers that are made for walking, lifting, and dancing. No fluff. Just real-life fitness gear that fits my soft life. ✨ These picks are all tried, tested, and tea-girlie approved.

From casual kickbacks to intimate outdoor dinners, this list is all about hosting with ease and elegance. Whether you're lighting up the grill or setting the vibe with soft lighting and cozy seating, these outdoor party picks bring comfort, warmth, and a little wow to your next gathering. Perfect for soft life living—outside.

Denim is more than jeans—it’s a whole vibe. Whether you’re dressing it up with heels or keeping it cozy with layers, this list rounds up soft life staples that pair perfectly with denim days. From timeless jackets to unexpected denim finds, every piece was curated with comfort, confidence, and a little bit of edge in mind.

Whether it’s backyard competition or family bonding time, this list is full of games and gear that get us outside and active. From cornhole to pickleball to foldable nets and frisbees, everything here is tested, fun, and full of movement—no gym required.

This list includes the items I keep in my car, home, and bag to stay prepared—not paranoid. From self-defense keychains to home security and emergency gear, everything here helps me protect my peace, my space, and the people I love.

Working from home shouldn’t feel like a chore. This curated list brings together the essentials that keep my space functional, stylish, and soft-life approved. From time-blocking planners and cozy desk setups to productivity tools and wellness boosters, these are the WFH finds I actually use and love. Whether you're clocking in for a 9-to-5 or building your dream brand from your living room, there's something here to help you thrive.

Spark conversations without saying a word—this collection showcases jaw-dropping accessories that balance function with finesse. From sparkling bags to tech-forward treasures, each piece is a style moment that whispers elegance and power. Ideal for women who live large, accessorize boldly, and stay unmuted in every room.

Need a creative outlet? This collection includes paint kits, journals, and inspiring tools to help you reconnect with God and rediscover joy through art, reflection, and flow. No pressure to be perfect — just present.

Gentle, effective, and soul-soothing. These wellness and beauty finds are curated for the woman who leads with grace and glows from the inside out. Add to cart if you’re into skincare, rest rituals, and faith-led glow-ups.

This list is for the woman who’s doing the inner work. Whether you're healing from what hurt you, hoping for what’s next, or walking toward wholeness one day at a time—these are the tools that have helped me feel seen, supported, and spiritually grounded. From journals and books to wellness tools and soul-soothing comforts, each item here is chosen with intention to help you rise, rest, and remember who you are.

These are books and resources that I personally use during my bible study time.

This list is for the woman who’s been holding it down — now it’s her turn to rest, reset, and pour back into herself. From skincare that loves melanin to tools that support mental, emotional, and spiritual healing, these Amazon self-care picks are curated with Black women over 40 in mind. Because soft doesn’t mean weak — it means wise, well, and worthy.

Selfcare includes your health and wellness routines. As a women in perimenopause, I’ve had to redefine how I workout and what works best for my body.

Going through perimenopause made me shift my whole mindset on personal health and wellness. Weekly walking goals combined with at home workouts gave me great results when it came to my numbers. My doctor was impressed by my results.

Create a soft space where stories unfold, thoughts settle, and peace becomes part of your routine. This list includes everything you need to set up a cozy reading nook—whether you’re working with a sunny corner, a small apartment, or a quiet escape in your bedroom. From bean bag chairs and soft throw blankets to book lights and calming scents, each item helps you carve out a corner that’s just for you. Perfect for soft life moments, journaling, or getting lost in your next favorite read. #ReadingNookVibes #SoftLifeSpaces #BookLoversHaven #CozyCornerSetup #AltoviseUnmuted #QuietLuxuryAtHome

This list combines tips, resources, and motivation to help you get out of a rut when it comes to cleaning.

Bags can be cute and functional. These bags can be matched with many fashion trends no matter what color palette you prefer.

As a 40+ girlie, I’m always look for clothes that fit my personality and are comfortable to wear. I’ll rock a hoodie and jeans or mini skirt…all with a smile.