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These are the go-to products I use when my hands need a reset. Whether you’ve been cleaning, caregiving, crafting, or creating—this list is filled with comfort-forward tools that help restore your strength and softness. From nourishing creams to spa-style therapies, this is healing at your fingertips.

Your home should feel like a reflection of your healing, your joy, and your story. This collection includes handmade home decor that adds peace, personality, and meaning to your space—whether it’s a hand-poured candle, painted tray, or textured wall piece. Because soft life starts at home.

These handmade pieces are a reflection of the bold, beautiful, and artistic women I serve. From paint-pour earrings to crochet wear and hand-dyed fabrics, every item in this collection is crafted with love, story, and individuality. Grown-woman style isn’t about trends—it’s about soul. These are the pieces I reach for when I want to wear something no one else has, but everyone asks about.

Whether I’m under the stars or just pretending to be, this is how I bring comfort, calm, and soft life energy to the outdoors. From foldable chairs and cozy bedding to functional gear and low-maintenance meals, this list is made for women over 40 who still want to explore—but without sacrificing peace. Call it glamping, camping, or just grown-woman unplugging—either way, we’re doing it intentionally.

These are more than pajamas—they’re part of how I reclaim rest. Whether I’m sipping tea, journaling, or just catching my breath after a long day, these soft, cozy pieces help me slow down with intention. For women over 40 who are done performing and ready to rest well—this list is your soft life starter pack for bedtime.

Whether they’re headed to the dorm or commuting from home, these college must-haves are for students (and parents) who want function and peace. This isn’t just another back-to-school checklist—it’s a curated guide to starting strong, staying organized, and keeping soft life energy in the middle of campus chaos.

This isn’t just about sand and sun—it’s about reclaiming rest. This Soft Life Beach List was curated for the woman who is done with burnout and now lives by faith, flow, and SPF. Every item here supports ease, elegance, and unapologetic joy—from comfy sandals that cushion every step to beach totes that hold devotionals and boundaries alike.

Whether it's your first cruise or your next one as a woman fully walking in her power—this list was created to help you cruise in comfort, confidence, and Christ-like clarity. From must-have travel items to mindset resets, I’m sharing everything I bring to make my time at sea peaceful, stylish, and completely unbothered.

Psychology and Sociology always intrigued me in College so I decided to return to school for a Pschology degree. It has also influenced a small…okay maybe a large portion of my personal reading library. 🤷🏽‍♀️ This list is a snippet of some of the studies, books, and discussions that I have listened to or read.

I hosted the #SpeakEasy podcast for seven years and loved it!! This highlights tips and resources for you to start your own show.

Technology is ever evolving and there are many tech products that benefit the daily lives of mature women. From listening to your favorite podcast or audiobooks to keeping your home and family safe.

All throughout my children’s lives, we alternated between movie night and game night. This list is loaded with movie night ideas and great products that can help make it a night to remember.

From mattress toppers to body pillows, this list covers all the pillows that will add to you having a great nights sleep.

These are books and resources that I personally use during my bible study time.

This list is for the woman who’s been holding it down — now it’s her turn to rest, reset, and pour back into herself. From skincare that loves melanin to tools that support mental, emotional, and spiritual healing, these Amazon self-care picks are curated with Black women over 40 in mind. Because soft doesn’t mean weak — it means wise, well, and worthy.

Selfcare includes your health and wellness routines. As a women in perimenopause, I’ve had to redefine how I workout and what works best for my body.

Going through perimenopause made me shift my whole mindset on personal health and wellness. Weekly walking goals combined with at home workouts gave me great results when it came to my numbers. My doctor was impressed by my results.

I created this list for this who have a love of reading books and want to create (or find) a space where they can read comfortably.

This list combines tips, resources, and motivation to help you get out of a rut when it comes to cleaning.

Bags can be cute and functional. These bags can be matched with many fashion trends no matter what color palette you prefer.

As a 40+ girlie, I’m always look for clothes that fit my personality and are comfortable to wear. I’ll rock a hoodie and jeans or mini skirt…all with a smile.