I got engaged December 11, 2023 in St Maarten and we got married June 20, 2025 in Toronto at Hotel X! It gave us (aka me) a year and a half to plan the wedding and prepare everything we needed. Here is a glimpse of the things I bought and wore for the big day 🤍
our wedding day was on Valentine's Day 2026 and yes, i am a perfectionist! a firm believer in “if you want something done right, do it yourself” so here is a list of some of the tools, vendors, crafts and ideas that have helped me along the way thus far from an engagement dinner to the big day and every special event in between. from custom printed paper goods to party favors and decor. i hope that you find this list helpful and please feel free to reach out in you are in need of a designer! (i am an artist with a knack for this and have been designing all of our own custom invites, menus, programs, stickers, etc.) best of luck! xo PS: you can read all about our wedding in the New York Times here: nytimes.com/2026/03/13/style/remy-banks-ashley-condina-wedding.html
My girls have shown up for me through every single step of this wedding, so their gifts had to be just as special 🤍 These are the trendy, chic, and actually practical picks I'm giving my bridesmaids and maid of honor: personalized Etsy finds, getting-ready essentials, and pieces they'll use long after the last dance. Steal my list for your own bridal party! Some links may be affiliate links, so I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you 🤍
Are you wanting to change outfits before your reception but aren't really sure what to wear or where to start looking? Well I've got you babe, sorted by Jumpsuits, Dresses, Sets, (and of course adding in shoes) you're sure to find something you love in this list!
These are items that my husband and I added to our wedding registry! Some items were gifted, some items I went and purchased with gift cards that were given to us, but we love all of them! I am all about making my home cozy and inviting and I feel like all of these have helped achieve that goal!
Sammie Pac | Fashion Finds, Party Planning & Mom Style
As someome who has attended at least 5-6 weddings a year for the past few years, here is the current in my clost list of recommendations. It's been so hard to find a balance in your 30s on what your style is! Im a lulu's girly, what can I say.
I feel like since we've been engaged I haven't looked at any of the fun stuff because I've been so focused on baby. This curation is of all the things I would want for fits for bachelorette trip, couples shower or bridal shower.
When I asked my friends to be my bridesmaid I made them all gift bags. Here are some of the items I included in my bridesmaids proposal bags. They were a huge hit and everyone loved them!
I've rounded up the most gorgeous bridesmaid dresses in every color — from timeless black to sunny yellow! Whether you're dreaming of soft pastels or bold hues, I hope you find the perfect dresses to make your bridal party shine.
This theme is a great option for mixing beach and a touch of carnival. I love the pastel colors and the inclusion of stuff like carousel horses and cotton candy, while still being beachy. Such a great blend.
As a 2027 Bride, I'm always on the lookout for bridal looks in the mid-size range. Here are some of my recent lookbook selections by designers who offer inclusive (and flattering) size options. Everything should go up to an XL or 14 or higher!
Dresses for the elegant weddings in the winter months! I love getting fancy without the price tag and these are all options I’d have in my cart for a winter wedding!
As more couples opt for intimate weddings and meaningful experiences, elopements have become a popular choice. This collection of elopement cards features designs with and without photos, cards with custom announcement messages, and some with wedding reception/after party invite details, so that all your needs are covered!
Plan an epic, elegant bachelor party with our curated list of personalized black-tie poker night invites, decor, and unique favors. This list contains affiliate links. If you click on one and make a purchase, we may receive a commission, without any extra charge to you.
An ivory and sage green floral wedding suite with hand painted peonies and greenery. This is a romantic look for a garden wedding int he spring or summer, but it could also be good at any time of the year because of the neutral color scheme.
I LOVE the look of mismatched bridesmaid dresses, and even though I’m married already, I want to help you source your dresses! 💕
This list is PINK dresses, including gorgeous ditsy florals! Follow along for some great finds 💄🌸💍
Etsy is brimming full with great gifts, but some of the product are so same- samey! I have done the search for you! Check my most favorite shops on etsy & gifts that I think would be perfect to gift newly engaged couples, newly-weds, your wedding party, or even gift yourself!!! lots of love, Maggie
Are you also trying to plan a wedding without blowing your budget? Been there, done that. As my wedding day passed amazingly, I want to share some of the tips and recommendations to make your life easier. These are the affordable, easy-to-use finds that save money, time, and stress, from planning tools to DIY décor and day-of emergency fixes. Perfect for brides, grooms, and maids of honor on a budget.
Your wedding day is filled with moments that matter and your beauty should last through every one of them.
This carefully curated bridal touch-up kit includes professional-approved beauty essentials designed to keep your makeup fresh, polished, and photo-ready from “I do” to the last dance. Whether you’re a bride, bridesmaid, or attending a special event, these products are trusted by makeup artists to maintain flawless skin, soft lips, and a radiant finish throughout the day.
PLUS SIZE GIRLIES UNITE!! I KNOW how hard it is to find a cute white dress that doesn’t look like it’s for an old lady. This is what I found that doesn’t cost a fortune and looked so cute! And TRUST me I looked EVERYWHERE!!
I’ve been in 10+ weddings in some capacity or another and have gathered some tips and tricks. These are the tried and true items I continue to use and buy again
This is such a unique bridesmaid proposal idea! I've put together everything you need, all you need to do is remember to say pretty pretty please with a cherry on top!
Every anniversary, same spot, same pose, new photo. Sounds simple until you realize your hair is different, the lighting shifted, your outfit wrinkles in the car, and the prints from last year already faded on the shelf. This is for couples who do the yearly photo tradition and want each one to actually look as good as the original. Took me seven years of trial and error to nail down what works.
Family and celebration go hand in hand for me. These are wedding finds I'd recommend to anyone planning a day to remember, from thoughtful keepsakes to details guests actually talk about afterward.
That first Christmas after the wedding hits different — you're unpacking ornament boxes and realizing none of them represent this massive life change you just went through. If you're scrambling to find something meaningful before December sneaks up (and it always does), I spent way too long searching so you can skip the generic big-box aisle and go straight to the good stuff.
Wedding guest dresses and jumpsuits from my favorite brand! I own at least 6 of these. Lulus never disappoints! Their fabrics are luxurious and flattering, and the styles they release are never boring or plain. Even the most simplistic dress has small details that make it stand out.
Turn heads with this curated edit of wedding guest dresses worth stealing the show. From romantic florals to sleek silhouettes, these picks strike the perfect balance between elegant and eye-catching—ideal for black-tie soirées, beach ceremonies, and everything in between. Chic, flattering, and photo-ready, these are the dresses that guarantee compliments all night long.
Planning a wedding with 150 guests and a paper seating chart taped to my fridge was a disaster waiting to happen — I moved Aunt Linda six times before I even picked the font. If you're deep in reception planning and the table assignments are making you question everything, these place cards actually made the whole process feel manageable. Grabbed most of these months before the wedding so I wasn't panic-ordering at 2am the week before.
Hey, fellow bridesmaids! Summer wedding season is here, so let me help you out with all the essentials you need for the special day. From the perfect elegant dress to longlasting lipstick and everything in between, I’ve got you covered. I’ve gathered my top picks and personal tips all in one place, so you don’t have to stress. With summer wedding season right around the corner, now’s the perfect time to get your bridesmaid kit ready!
This list was inspired by my bestie getting married. I've already been through the makeup, the shoes, the perfume… this endless process. Now, I'm bringing you your ultimate checklist for your big day as a bridesmaid
I dealt with a lot of drama leading up to my wedding and waited until last minute to order nearly everything. Don't be like me! These are some of the gorgeous gifts I was able to buy and some that I missed out on. But having interacted with most of these sellers I can tell you they are kind and care about their customers! Happy shopping! 🤍
The suite still has four wire hangers and no steamer. That is how portraits start 40 minutes late. These are the things I tell brides and planners to set up in the hotel so the dress is hung, the irons stay in the closet, and nobody is steaming over a toilet at 9 a.m. Not the day-of emergency kit. That list is shine, stains, and a dead phone.
✨ As I celebrate my 4th year in business as a wedding florist here in Austin, Texas, I’ve put together a list of my absolute must-haves that I use daily in my studio. These are the tools, supplies, and little luxuries that keep my floral business running smoothly and help me bring each couple’s wedding vision to life. Whether you’re a fellow florist, a budding creative, or just curious about what goes into the art of wedding flowers, these are my tried-and-true essentials I couldn’t work without!
Traditional guest books end up in a drawer. You know it, I know it. If you want something your wedding guests can sign that actually becomes wall art, this is the lineup I pulled together after weeks of comparing puzzles, frames, markers, and display supplies. Grab these before your RSVP deadline hits.
Every wedding season I used to panic-buy something off the registry that ended up in a closet. After watching friends unwrap their fifth decorative candle set, I started paying attention to what actually stayed on their counters, in their kitchens, and in their daily routines. This list is for anyone tired of giving forgettable gifts. Everything here is under $30 and I've personally seen couples reach for these months after the wedding.
A curated list of decor, activites, favors and bridal gifts for your Veuve before Vows // Last Rendez Veuve themed bachelorette party. From champagne glasses to Veuve-themed ballon decor to Prosecco Pong, this list will make party planning a breeze! Whether you're looking to host a more luxury party or are planning on a budget, there's recommendations for everyone.
I got engaged on December 5th, 2021, and married on October 1st, 2022! Planning my big day was such a journey, especially finding the perfect outfits for all the special moments—engagement party, engagement shoot, bridal shower, and of course, the wedding day! For all the brides-to-be, I’ve put together a list of my favorite outfits to help make your events unforgettable! 💍👰✨
I got engaged back June 2024. It was in beautiful Banff, specifically Emerald Lake. It was so unexpected and I was so shook because we had just seen a black momma bear with her cubs. Any who, I just recently got married and was engaged for over a year and a half. So I wanted to created a list for my engaged girlies !! This is an amazing and fun season ! Enjoy every second of it as the next chapter will be even better ❤️❤️
Brides on a budget! Sharing my GREAT finds that I actually used in my 2025 Valentines wedding! I hope this saves you time in your searching and also saves you money! When you’re planning a wedding, every penny counts! :)
Just call me the Hostess with the Mostess lol. One of my favorite things to do is host friends and family for gatherings. These items help make sure they are gatherings to remember.
Every December I'd panic-buy some generic ornament and write our names on it with a Sharpie — it looked terrible and my partner definitely noticed. If you're the type who wants your tree to actually tell your story as a couple but can't find anything that doesn't look like it came from a hospital gift shop, this is the list that took me way too long to put together.
I feel like it is just wedding SEASON lately and I have perfected the wedding guest guide! This folder has all the wedding guest necessities and looks that you need for inspo!
LGBTQ+ Wedding + two brides are better than one. I'm not going to lie, the wedding industry has not evolved enough for queer couples. Hopefully my list will give you all the right places to look. #lesbianwedding #wedding #lgbtqwedding #loveislove #winterwedding #weddinginspo #pride
When registering for items to create your lives together you always think about what you're currently missing, but not about how the quality will stand up over time. This list has items that we have been using for years now as well as what we wish we had registered for in the first place.
If you are looking for pretty & timeless decor for the elegant bride, here are some of my floral favorites, candles, sparkly accessories & custom details for your big day. All recommendations are from stores and brands I’ve used as well.
Step into the enchanting world of fall weddings with our carefully curated collection of guest outfits. This season, we've gathered a range of styles that effortlessly capture the essence of autumn's beauty. From rustic elegance to layered sophistication, our outfits are designed to ensure you shine as a guest while celebrating love amidst the changing leaves. Rustic Elegance: Fall's warm and earthy tones take center stage in this collection. Think deep burgundy, rich emerald, and rustic mustard - colors that harmonize with the season's backdrop. Textured fabrics like tweed, lace, and velvet provide a tactile charm that complements the rustic wedding themes often seen in autumn. Layered Sophistication: Fall weather can be unpredictable, but our outfits have you covered. Explore tailored blazers, shawls, and wraps that transition seamlessly from outdoor ceremonies to indoor receptions. With layered sophistication, you'll stay comfortable and chic, no matter the venue or temperature. Browse our fall wedding guest outfit collection and embrace the elegance of this magical season.
Prepping for you wedding is so fun but can feel super overwhelming - putting together my favorites in different categories to help you during your bridal era
I’m hosting a little bachelorette at my house! Our theme is “Last Sail Before the Veil” We’re going on a little tiki boat ride and a beautiful sunset dinner. Here’s to our bride!
Everything I leaned on planning a Vancouver wedding and elopement, from the dress and the glam to decor, invites and the little keepsakes. A mix of affordable finds and the local vendors we actually loved. Sorted so you can jump to whatever you are shopping for.
Step into a world of 80s luxury, Madonna‑level glamour, and unapologetic main‑character sparkle with this “She Found Her Mister Right” bachelorette theme. This list is packed with bold decor, iconic bach bag fillers, and outfit ideas that channel the Material Girl herself — think gold accents, lace, and just the right amount of attitude. It’s all about celebrating the bride with big hair, big energy, and even bigger love.
The 10th anniversary is traditionally tin/aluminium (strong, flexible, built to last) — so these ideas either use those materials or nod to the theme in a fun, modern way.
i planned my parents' 25th wedding anniversary vow renewal and party and it was the most magical evening. i couldn't have done it without the help of small businesses whether that be a vendor or helping me with supplies. everything was perfect
From bridal shower gifts to veils, wedding-day must-haves, bachelorette party fun, and bridal party essentials—this list is your one-stop bridal inspiration board. A mix of sparkle, style, and thoughtful touches to make the celebrations unforgettable.
Whether you're the bride, the MOH doing all the planning, or a crafter making custom party merch to sell — this list has everything you need to pull off the ultimate western bachelorette. Grab the SVG designs, pair them with these aesthetic blanks, and get to crafting! From satin robes and tees to wine tumblers, totes, and photo booth props, every pick is designed to help you build a cohesive "last rodeo" moment that photographs beautifully.
I've tested countless party products and curated a list of my absolute favorites to make your next celebration unforgettable. These picks, from dazzling decorations to thoughtful favors, will elevate any event.
Struggling with what to get your bridesmaids as a thank you for your being a part of your wedding? Here are some ideas that I used for my bridesmaid proposals and day of thank you gifts. I went PRACTICAL. I wanted them to be able to use these items time and time again.
You know that one uncle who refuses to dance, the cousin who hides in the corner, and the friend who says she hates photos? I watched all three of them fighting over a pair of oversized sunglasses at my reception. If you're planning a party and want actual candid photos instead of stiff smiles, this is the setup that turned my most reluctant guests into the life of the party. Grab these before your next event so the photographer actually has something fun to work with.
Are you a new bride looking for it all in your bridal dress shopping experience? Look no further. This list includes the most exclusive bridal boutiques in and around Charlotte, NC where you'll have that once in a lifetime experience with your friends and family while finding your dream dress.
Spent two wedding seasons wearing either boring bobby pins or tiaras that screamed prom queen — there was no in-between. If you're someone who wants a little sparkle woven through a braid or updo without looking like you raided a costume shop, this is the lineup that finally nailed it. Took me a lot of returns to land here so you don't have to.
These are all dresses from Amazon for formal events that I either own and have worn or bought as options anad have tried. All are good quality to last through nights of fun on the dance floor and beyond!
Planning a destination wedding can get overwhelming fast. For my Panama wedding on 26-2-26, these are the decor pieces, guest favors, bridal details, and wedding extras I bought or seriously wish I ordered earlier.