Weddings can be a big investment. That is how my (now) husband and I saw it because this was likely the only time all our friends & family would be together. We had people traveling from all over the US, including ourselves. Planning a wedding from out of state is stressful but I was so lucky to have great family and vendors to support us. This wasn't just “MY big day”. It was about having fun and sharing love with our favorite people, and this is how we made it possible. This page contains affiliate links, If you click and purchase I may receive a small commission, at no cost to you. I only recommend products I have personally used.

Here is your one stop place to find all things wedding! I got the list of many items I used during my wedding or things I wish I used or just love the look of!

I got engaged December 11, 2023 in St Maarten and we got married June 20, 2025 in Toronto at Hotel X! It gave us (aka me) a year and a half to plan the wedding and prepare everything we needed. Here is a glimpse of the things I bought and wore for the big day 🤍

I love a custom gift I can remember the day by that I can use later down the road too. I curated a list of the BEST ones that anyone would love to take home with them!

I put together a wedding day emergency kit for my friends wedding and this is all the things we actually needed

highly recommend eloping with the love of your life :) we got married on our 7 year dating anniversary in las vegas, a place that's very special to us. we called this time our wedding week & we spent 3 days in las vegas & then had a mini honeymoon at disneyland for 3 days. best $5000 spent on a week. eloping shows that you don't need anything grand to :)

Thinking of asking for their hand in marriage? Check out this list of resorts that will be perfect for that unforgettable moment! If you need assistance or have more questiosn about these resorts feel free to contact me!

no one wants to get caught off guard and add stress to their wedding day! here's what I'm keeping in my kit <3

I spend MONTHS trying to find the right gift for everyone who has everything! These are some personal favourites that I have gotten or been giving 🥰 we don’t gate keep the goods!

Regency-era elegance meets modern hosting. Discover Bridgerton-inspired dinner party decor, romantic table settings, pastel florals, candles, and dreamy aesthetic ideas perfect for themed soirées, birthdays, or garden parties.

I've photographed over 380 weddings over fifteen seasons as a wedding photographer (and before that, I was an assistant TO a wedding photographer from 2004-2009 - so we've done a ton of weddings!) As my clients, you get access to this list of my favorite local wedding vendors. We've worked together and enjoy working together - they're whom I would pick for my own wedding or a close family member's wedding!

Celebrate love with my curated collection of wedding must-haves and heartfelt gifts. From elegant decor and bride & groom accessories to personalized keepsakes, we help make every wedding unforgettable.

With Valentine's Day next weekend, I have curated some last-minute valentine's gifts for your significant other. Whether he's a new beau or a husband, you will find something for him here. My list includes personalizable gifts too!

A peek into what's in my toolkit as a florist! Here are all the essentials a florist would need & more! Perfect for beginner and advanced florists.

Products I used to have long, healthy and shiny hair before my wedding day! Start using these products a year to 6 months out from your wedding for optimal results

Need ideas for your registry?? Here are the gifts from our wedding registry that we’ve loved the most. From kitchen staples to cozy home must-haves, these are the things we reach for every day (and guests will love gifting, too!).

Some of my absolute favorite designs for the 2025 holiday season - family Christmas cards, newlywed cards and ornaments, trendy striped gift wrap, gift tags and more. Obsessed with this style and the fun flourishes.

wedding season is REAL. when everyone around you is getting married (i literally have like 15 weddings this year), these are the looks I’m actually wearing as a guest⭐ marked with a star ⭐ are budget friendly

I feel like since we've been engaged I haven't looked at any of the fun stuff because I've been so focused on baby. This curation is of all the things I would want for fits for bachelorette trip, couples shower or bridal shower.

A hand-picked collection of rich burgundy wedding finds with timeless vintage charm. Deep wine florals, antique gold accents, candlelight, and heirloom-inspired textures.

These aesthetic wedding gift ideas are all about thoughtful, beautiful, and memorable touches that your bridal party, friends, or even yourself will love.

Whether you’re attending a romantic garden ceremony, a glamorous evening reception, or a chic city wedding.

From a bow-themed birthday party to a “She's Tying the Knot” bachelorette party, here's a roundup of the best the bow-themed decor and party favors!

These are all the things I loved having and leaned on after I got engaged and leading up to our wedding (and nothing that I didn’t bc there is a LOT of stuff you really don’t need, I promise)

Whether you're attending a wedding soon, or you'd just like a pretty outfit in your closet, hope you'll find your next “go-to” in my list!

I love helping friends find the perfect items for their magical day! Here are some of my absolute favorites I’ve found!! 🩶

Set the tone for your casual yet classy rural ranch marriage ceremony and reception with the charming Rustic Sunflowers and Cowboy Boots Country Western Wedding Collection. Personalize wedding invitations, rsvp cards, save the date announcements, bridal shower invites, thank you notes and paper reception products. Perfect inspo or idea for cowgirl bride and cowboy groom planning an informal summer or fall farm style event. Invitations are available printed for mailing or as a digital download for easy sharing digitally online.

The king and queen of Kansas City are getting married. These are all the of my favorite things and all the items needed for their happily ever after ❤️

Think midnight skies, constellations, soft metallics, candles, and a magical glow everywhere.

Great buys for others in your life! One of a kind or customized for your loved ones! These shops have given such high quality work and great communication!

Whether the bride-to-be is a Western girlie or not, Disco cowgirl & Last Rodeo bachelorette are hot themes! Its fun, quirky, and allows you to mix a few aesthetics with the vibrant pink shades that are perfect for this type of party celebrating the soon to be Mrs.

This is such a unique bridesmaid proposal idea! I've put together everything you need, all you need to do is remember to say pretty pretty please with a cherry on top!

This is a list of everything I used/had at my wedding in the fall of 2024! I DIY'd a lot of things, had wood sola flowers, had a very small guest list to make it feel cozy & more manageable to talk to everyone, and I made most of the signs with Canva!!

Custom gifts from Etsy to give that personal touch to any gift for any holiday or special occasion

About to be in a five year long relationship! Ok so like sure we should finish college but a girl can dream right? Here's my wedding planning starting early

✨ The Best Wedding Guest Dresses You Can Shop Now ✨ Looking for the perfect outfit to wear to your next wedding? This curated list of wedding guest dresses has you covered for every dress code and season. From chic cocktail dresses and elegant midi styles to floor-sweeping gowns and flirty floral minis, these pieces are hand-picked to make sure you look stylish, appropriate, and effortlessly put-together.

From pre-wedding parties to the big day itself, this list is packed with everything you and your bride tribe need to celebrate in style. From chic bachelorette must-haves to wedding day essentials, these picks will keep the vibes high, the memories beautiful, and the weekend stress-free.

Discover stylish boys’ suits perfect for weddings, special occasions, and formal events. From newborn outfits to sharp suits for tweens, these looks combine comfort with elegance. Whether he’s a wedding guest, ring bearer, or dressed up for a celebration, most people choose these timeless suits to make little boys look polished and confident on the big day. 💐 #BoysWeddingSuit #KidsFormalWear #RingBearerStyle #BabyToTweenFashion #SpecialOccasionSuit

Are you a bride, newly engaged or soon to be?! I have been loving these items. Some fave engagement must haves, bridal era goodies, white outfits etc.! It is such a fun time to be celebrating and enjoying being a fiancé!

Start here! Whether you're getting married, moving in together, or just want to refresh your everyday home essentials, this list is full of timeless, stylish, and practical finds. From elevated kitchenware to cozy home upgrades and thoughtful entertaining pieces, these are registry-worthy picks you’ll actually use (and love for years). Even if you're not tying the knot, it's a great place to find gift inspiration for a loved one—or treat yourself to a little upgrade.

These dresses are so beautiful and amazing quality. I love shopping showpo and they have the best selection no matter your style or size! Dive in to the sale rack or new arrivals any time and always find the perfect dress

Spring is time for garden parties and that’s why I thought to share my picks for all the cool things that can make any party special. Birthday parties happen all year around. And a cocktail party doesn’t have a season, it can happen any time and they are fun. To make your party super special you only need one or two thing that will stand out. Pick from my list and have a great party! 🎉🍸🍹🍷

Valentine's Day cards that celebrate passionate and romantic love. Please skip the dollar store this year! It feels so nice to receive a beautiful and meaningful card from your partner on Valentine's Day! I found some awesome designer cards that express romantic love in a cool way, so you don't have to go looking yourself! :)

My husband and I Eloped in Paris, this is everything you’ll need for your Elopement Abroad!

She might have everything, but your Mother-in-law still deserves to be spoiled!

A jewelry box reflects one's particular flair. A sleek leather box communicates modern elegance, whilst a classic oak chest oozes timeless appeal. These boxes frequently have sentimental value, becoming mementos as they secure important memories and gifts.

Valentine's top picks for surprising your significant other. There is a section for sellers and teachers, anyone who needs a large fulfillment of people around these days.

Everything you might need on your big day to prevent disaster - you just never know! Here is my personal bridal emergency kit made by my bridesmaids and I.

I just got a text!! ||| During the summer, I look forward to the new seasons of Love Island and Love Island USA. This year was my first time hosting and attending Love Island themed parties, I can't wait to do another!

Want to build your dream ring? But want it to be affordable?! I would gatekeep this website, but we are friends so I must share with you. If you want to create a ring for your partner or yourself, you do not have to pay the expensive prices at the local jewelry stores. Purchase your diamond and work with your local jewelry. **No affiliate links featured.**

I got engaged on December 5th, 2021, and married on October 1st, 2022! Planning my big day was such a journey, especially finding the perfect outfits for all the special moments—engagement party, engagement shoot, bridal shower, and of course, the wedding day! For all the brides-to-be, I’ve put together a list of my favorite outfits to help make your events unforgettable! 💍👰✨

Quinceanera invitations can get really repetitive as far as the designs go…I've been making some and I'm going to be adding some that don't follow the “normal” design themes, but are a little more sophisticated. I'll add more here as I get to them, and I've also added some that I've found on other sites.

As a maid of honor, one of my duties was hosting the bride's bridal shower. Coming up with the theme and buying items for it was a blast. Here is a list of some of the items the bride and/or guests loved the most that stood out.

Your go‑to Valentine’s Day gift list — romantic, cozy, and self‑care approved.

Disco Cowboy, The Last Hoe Down, Her Last Rodeo Bachelorette Outfit Examples for fall so you’re not too hot or cold

I have a boutique business where I make all kinds of items. Like tumblers, shirts, wind spinners, pens, etc.! Here are some files I've purchased personally and would recommend!

Different options for Father’s Day gifts ! Google shows the same gifts constantly so these are out of the ordinary from that.

List of potential dresses to use for weddings. These are targeted for formal to semi formal weddings not black tie. Mainly for weddings in warmer areas. Most dresses are also targeted for a mid size body type with a lower belly and smaller chest.

Sorry in advance for all of the Taylor Swift puns. For real though, where are all my Swifties at? I don't know about you guys, but I am over the moon excited for my dear friend, Taylor Swift (haha). Seriously, though, this is MY royal wedding. To celebrate, here's a mood board for the wedding. And Taylor, if you see this, I'd LOVE an invite!

Everything I’ve loved (or wish I’d had) for wedding season — whether you're planning your own, helping a friend, or just looking for inspo. From bachelorette party ideas and outfit finds to makeup, wedding day must-haves, and vendor recs, this list covers a little bit of everything. Most of it can work for anyone, but since I'm in Kansas City, the location-based ideas (like venues, vendors, and activities) are KC-inspired.

From engagement rings for her (& him) to jewelry insurance and buying guides.

Are you getting married at the beach? Then check out this list for all the best outfit inspo for your beach wedding! Beach weddings are some of my favorites to photograph and the bridal outfits are the most fun to find inspo for!

Hi!! I often find the best places for natural/relaxed family and engagement sessions are locations that mean something to you; hence why I love photographing people in their homes and yards - especially kids. But if you're looking for somewhere a little different, then I have some suggestions below. I've also tried to include links to my blog posts in most of the descriptions, so that you can see more photos. As always, for more general info please click here - darcytroutmanphotography.com

I feel like it is just wedding SEASON lately and I have perfected the wedding guest guide! This folder has all the wedding guest necessities and looks that you need for inspo!

What to get your mom and mother in law on your special day… she is the woman who birthed you and raised you and raised your soon to be spouse. Giving them a sweet gift is a special gesture and a tangible takeaway from your big day. It’s best to be intentional and consider something they would really love.

Thoughtfully designed and fun tickets for parties and events.

Things I loved for me and my girls as a bride, so I wanted to share them :)

An equestrian wedding is a dream for passoniate horse riders. If you identify as one, or if you're simply seeking a wedding that stands out from the norm, then take a moment to explore this wedding list filled with equestrian wedding inspiration.

Your go-to list of wedding-guest dresses for any season or dress code — chic, timeless, and perfect for every type of celebration.

My sister is getting married so I am finding myself needing to get cutie dresses for all the events! See my list below for outfit ideas for bridal shower, rehearsal dinner, and wedding guest moments.

Fun and Flirty Bridesmaid Dress!! Let your bridesmaids have fun with what they wear!! Unique and fun dresses make your pictures that much better

This past weekend, my fiancé and I had both of our families together to celebrate our engagement! We found a nice sized venue and decorated the space with earth toned decor. This list includes some of the items we got off Amazon!

Elopement dress that are built for the birthplace of eloping! These dresses are fun, unique, quirky, elegant and anything but normal. I believe if you are eloping in Vegas, you want a little party in your life. These dresses, jumpsuits and accessories will help your bring the party!

In 2025, wedding themes are trending toward personalization, immersive experiences, and intentional design, reflecting the way couples want their celebrations to feel as unique as their love stories. Themes like celestial, Regency romance, and fairy-tale fantasy tap into the desire for magic and escapism, while sustainable, eco-friendly, and micro-weddings reflect conscious living and meaningful connections. On the other end of the spectrum, bold looks like maximalism, retro disco, and royal jewel tones celebrate joy, color, and extravagance after years of minimalism dominating wedding culture. Meanwhile, futuristic tech-infused weddings show how innovation is shaping modern events, and natural styles like desert boho, garden party, and tropical luxe highlight the ongoing love for outdoor, organic beauty. Altogether, these trends speak to a generation of couples who want their weddings to be deeply personal, visually striking, and memorable for both themselves and their guests

Dresses and outfits for Bachelorette, bridal shower, rehearsal dinner, party things, etc. Enjoy!

Everything from wedding events leading up to the big day and everything in the middle from a bridal consultant!

This collection is made for brides and grooms who want their big day to feel like a love story set to music. Think soft pastels, vintage-inspired details, sparkling accessories, and heartfelt touches that make every moment unforgettable.

Time to grab your gals and start a flamingle party! From flamingo party straws to the perfect pink party decor, flamingo themes bring you back to summertime and tropical vibes! Perfect theme for bachelorette parties, wedding showers, birthdays or just because you want to have a party with your friends!

struggling to find western wedding decor/ items? take a look at my list for inspiration!

My favorite gifts to give for any occasion: wedding, birthday, anniversary, holidays, just because, housewarming, baby gifts. I like to give gifts that you don't find everywhere.

Downtown Columbus offers so many beautiful wedding venues with a variety of aesthetics and amenities to fit any couple's needs.

The perfect blend of Boho and Farmhouse charm for my dream wedding with my handpicked recommendations and favorite finds, with weathered wooden signs, and vintage-inspired lace accents. Elevate your tablescape with a mix of greenery and babies breath florals. My collection includes a boho-farmhouse vibe.

One thing that our couples are always looking for are great Rehearsal Dinner Venues. Here is a list of some of the best in Charlotte, sectioned out by area!

A curated list of midi to formal dresses to dress up for a wedding or other special occasion!

details and decor that won't drain your already wedding funds, without sacrificing style and class

Wedding planning can be stressful, and it's hard to know where to find good quality products that don't break the bank. This list outlines a bunch of affordable products that will enhance your wedding and add to the magic of your special day!

Tossing the clichéd floral bouquet and coffee mug is a necessity at this point. Moms everywhere can now get it in one guess what they will be gifted for a special occasion like Mother's Day - the horror! The last thing you want is to become so predictable that your mom is now outsmarting you! There is no time like the present to shake things up and keep her guessing about her gift, one that also has just the right touch to convey a strong "I love you to bits" message. These gift ideas may very well be on her wishlist!

After planning a wedding in 2025, I learned quickly that not all registry items are created equal. This list is filled with actually useful, high-quality pieces we registered for (and loved), plus a few things we didn’t know we needed until married life started.

Are you a new bride looking for it all in your bridal dress shopping experience? Look no further. This list includes the most exclusive bridal boutiques in and around Charlotte, NC where you'll have that once in a lifetime experience with your friends and family while finding your dream dress.